Friends come and go throughout our lives. Some are for life and some are just a part of our lives for a short time. Some are everything we want in a friend and others let us down badly. Use the steps below to attract the friends you really want.
Get Clear
What do you want your friends to be like? Funny, charming, loyal, trustworthy, honest... Do you want them to be a great listener, someone who's always up for a night out, someone who shares the same interests as you, etc. It's really important to know what you want from your friends. Get a really clear picture in your mind and then write down what your ideal friend is like. Also add how they make you feel.
Use your imagination
Spend time imagining what it will be like with your ideal friend/s when they show up in your life. What will you do together? Play a story movie over and over in your mind of all the things you will do always making sure you add the emotions in.
Positive affirmations
Affirmations are positive messages we tell ourselves or others. Here are a few affirmations you could use to attract your ideal friend/s
- I am a wonderful friend and I attract fantastic friends into my life all the time
- I am a magnet for my ideal friends
- I only attract the very best friends who love and support me in all I do
- I am enjoying attracting amazing friends into my life
- I am a great friend and I deserve the same in return
- My ideal friends are loyal and honest, I can depend on them 100%
Affirmations are incredibly powerful when used consistently over a period of time. The best time to say your affirmations is first thing in the morning and last thing at night. It's a great idea to repeat them to yourself over and over again as you fall asleep letting your mind drift and picture yourself with a friend enjoying a chat, a film, a walk...
Believe in you
The final step and probably the most important is to believe in yourself. Believe that you are deserving of the very best friends. The affirmations will help with this and another really effective technique is EFT (emotional freedom technique) which helps remove limiting beliefs and negative emotions which could be stopping you from attracting the friends you really want.
Wendy Tomlinson - Professional Life Skills Coach and Law of Attraction Practitioner empowering people to live the lives they want.
